Making the Right Decision

Hi Everyone!
Disclaimer: This blog won't have fancy words and expressions, nor will it have EXPERT advice, but hopefully you'll find it a teeny bit helpful. Also, it's pretty short.

So, instead of personalizing today's case analysis, I will make it unanimous like I did in "CHESS STRESS".
Person A is playing very well, improving day by day and increasing their productivity in chess. They are eligible for U14 in a tournament where their school team is competing against several others, yet the players in U17 want Person A on their team. The coach has left the players to decide. Person A wants to go for U17, but fears they will not be able to get a gold, something they feel they are capable of in U14. So they have to make a tough decision; DESIRE or SUPPOSED CAPABILITY? The reason I say "supposed" is because Person A is 'unsure' of themselves, but that doesn't mean they aren't actually capable of U17 Gold. The factors that come in this problem are; self doubt, pressure, aim for greatness. These are extremely common in today's world, amongst not only chess players, but athletes, and even regular people.
Things like "I'm not good enough", "I won't get gold" or "It's too much to handle" pop up in Person A's brain. They are in a dilemma.
What should be the response to that?

Usually, you go with your instinct. The answer isn't actually fixed, as it's opinion-based and varies from person to person. Such questions are a self-analysis...a reflection or a check of your ability to do something. Sometimes people decide that it's okay if I don't get a gold in U17, but an opportunity like this shouldn't go to waste. Other times people think that there's always next year to go for U17, when you will be better and have more experience. Personally, I feel the latter opinion is the best choice...you should realize your limits. It's not a decision that will impact you alone...your team members will be affected as well.

Just remember, when you make a decision, stay by it. It's okay if the outcome is unprecedented. Don't regret your choice.

In times like these, advice from elders and trusted friends is the best. If you have a coach, go to them. They'll be able to give you their views on the subject, and you can devise a solution that way.

If this kind of situation applies to you, hopefully this message will assist in some, dare I say significant, way.
Until Next Time,
Cheers!
~ Enthusiast976