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I know ı won but tournaments give me nightmares, can you tell me how to calm down and recover from the stress I am having?

![image.png](https://image.lichess1.org/display?op=noop&path=A_VGzVithS4y.png&sig=b859967794cfde96ce2921b30324348c87a6599e) I know ı won but tournaments give me nightmares, can you tell me how to calm down and recover from the stress I am having?

Why are these tournaments so stressful for you in the first place? Presumably there are no prizes, and the only thing at stake is your rating, just as in other games. Where does the pressure come from?

Why are these tournaments so stressful for you in the first place? Presumably there are no prizes, and the only thing at stake is your rating, just as in other games. Where does the pressure come from?

@zwenna said ^

Why are these tournaments so stressful for you in the first place? Presumably there are no prizes, and the only thing at stake is your rating, just as in other games. Where does the pressure come from?

Fear of judgement, 'Need to be perfect' mindset, Chess Teacher strictness, Player's pride and more

@zwenna said [^](/forum/redirect/post/Gl6AGxNG) > Why are these tournaments so stressful for you in the first place? Presumably there are no prizes, and the only thing at stake is your rating, just as in other games. Where does the pressure come from? Fear of judgement, 'Need to be perfect' mindset, Chess Teacher strictness, Player's pride and more

@zwenna said ^

Why are these tournaments so stressful for you in the first place? Presumably there are no prizes, and the only thing at stake is your rating, just as in other games. Where does the pressure come from?

Chess tournaments stress are real, even gms lose thousands of calories from gm chess tournaments, they say 'ıts a mental trtr* (sorry ı have to censor ıt)' so as a serıous chess player, I have to be ready for thıs, any good advıce?

@zwenna said [^](/forum/redirect/post/Gl6AGxNG) > Why are these tournaments so stressful for you in the first place? Presumably there are no prizes, and the only thing at stake is your rating, just as in other games. Where does the pressure come from? Chess tournaments stress are real, even gms lose thousands of calories from gm chess tournaments, they say 'ıts a mental t*rt*r* (sorry ı have to censor ıt)' so as a serıous chess player, I have to be ready for thıs, any good advıce?

The brain does not need many calories.

If it did, we would not be writing here, if you think about it.

thousands of calories

I guess if it’s a multi day event and u count basic upkeep.
Let’s say the GM is built like Hulk and needs 3000calories a day. He plays 3 days for 8 hours = 3000kcal. But for that he needs to train very hard before or maybe even during the event and it has very little to do with his brain.

The brain does not need many calories. If it did, we would not be writing here, if you think about it. >thousands of calories > I guess if it’s a multi day event and u count basic upkeep. Let’s say the GM is built like Hulk and needs 3000calories a day. He plays 3 days for 8 hours = 3000kcal. But for that he needs to train very hard before or maybe even during the event and it has very little to do with his brain.

I have a friend...we'll call him Snickers for short. Anyway, Snickers believes that because I win most of our (Snickers' and mine) games, I should be able to win this one annual tournament (which he has won before). I don't know what to say: rock, paper, scissors, anyone? Chess is not simply a game of, "If A beats B, and B beats C, then A MUST beat C." I tried to explain this to him once, and he just ignored it. The thing is, it's just an unrated tournament. There is no grand prize (free snacks for all and maybe a gift card if one is lucky). I can't gain any points. I have no skin in the game, so to speak. My friend WANTS me to win. I think I will pass next year. If he wants to play in the tournament again, that's okay. I have more important things to do than to play in a tournament so my friend can better breathe. I also don't play for bragging rights. It's just a f#$%ing unrated tournament.

I have a friend...we'll call him Snickers for short. Anyway, Snickers believes that because I win most of our (Snickers' and mine) games, I should be able to win this one annual tournament (which he has won before). I don't know what to say: rock, paper, scissors, anyone? Chess is not simply a game of, "If A beats B, and B beats C, then A MUST beat C." I tried to explain this to him once, and he just ignored it. The thing is, it's just an unrated tournament. There is no grand prize (free snacks for all and maybe a gift card if one is lucky). I can't gain any points. I have no skin in the game, so to speak. My friend WANTS me to win. I think I will pass next year. If he wants to play in the tournament again, that's okay. I have more important things to do than to play in a tournament so my friend can better breathe. I also don't play for bragging rights. It's just a f#$%ing unrated tournament.

Well, I should calm down...I'll give myself a stroke. It's my life. If I don't want to play in a tournament, what is it to Snickers? I hope to play in a rated, OTB tournament in December--more than hope. Unless I am sick in bed, I will play. I will be competing with players about my strength, maybe slightly higher. It's a tournament divided into ratings classes, so I won't play any Class B, A, Expert, or Master players. Besides, playing against anyone that much better would be about as constructive as beating my head against a brick wall. Anyway, I think it will be fun. It is in my city, so I don't need to pay for a plane-ride or train-ride.

I am a bit nervous as time goes by, but I think I can gain some points in this tournament. I need to study some different openings, but I don't expect the games' openings to be the same as in the book. @JustAChessPlayer177 Thanks for opening this topic. I wish you the best in all things, chess and non-chess.

Well, I should calm down...I'll give myself a stroke. It's my life. If I don't want to play in a tournament, what is it to Snickers? I hope to play in a rated, OTB tournament in December--more than hope. Unless I am sick in bed, I will play. I will be competing with players about my strength, maybe slightly higher. It's a tournament divided into ratings classes, so I won't play any Class B, A, Expert, or Master players. Besides, playing against anyone that much better would be about as constructive as beating my head against a brick wall. Anyway, I think it will be fun. It is in my city, so I don't need to pay for a plane-ride or train-ride. I am a bit nervous as time goes by, but I think I can gain some points in this tournament. I need to study some different openings, but I don't expect the games' openings to be the same as in the book. @JustAChessPlayer177 Thanks for opening this topic. I wish you the best in all things, chess and non-chess.

@DoomedBishop said ^

I am a bit nervous as time goes by, but I think I can gain some points in this tournament. I need to study some different openings, but I don't expect the games' openings to be the same as in the book.

Thanks! we all go wıth same struggles, wısh everyone a good day!

@DoomedBishop said [^](/forum/redirect/post/lw04cheI) > I am a bit nervous as time goes by, but I think I can gain some points in this tournament. I need to study some different openings, but I don't expect the games' openings to be the same as in the book. Thanks! we all go wıth same struggles, wısh everyone a good day!

here are the researches I found and yes Chess tournaments stress are real:

Handling Pressure: Staying Calm Under Chess Tournament Stress
May 16, 2024 by John Levkowitz
Ever wonder why pros like International Master John Bartholomew worry about losing before a match? It’s common among chess players.

Stress in chess comes from wanting to do well and thinking we can control the game early on. Bartholomew says fear is normal. Facing our fears helps us handle pressure better and perform well.

People play chess for many personal reasons. Some do it to get better at coaching, to meet others, or to focus. Knowing your reasons can ease the pressure of high expectations. It’s key to accept your skills and use what you have. Every match helps you grow.

Using tournament notebooks and sleep meditations can calm you. These methods help deal with stress. Remember why you play and be okay with your prep. This changes fear into something helpful, not scary.

Key Takeaways
Acknowledge the irrational nature of pre-tournament fears and address them head-on.
Remember your personal reasons for playing, which often extend beyond winning.
Focus on leveraging existing skills rather than attempting last-minute drastic changes.
Adopt calming techniques like guided sleep meditations and keeping a tournament notebook.
Utilize meditation and mindfulness to manage anxiety during games.
Understand that the chess improvement process is continuous and each tournament contributes to your growth.
Understanding Chess Tournament Stress
Chess tournaments can last many days. Sometimes, they go on for 7, 9, or even 11 days straight. This long period can cause a lot of stress. The reason is the mental and emotional pressure it brings. Players often worry about having to be ready for every scenario, especially in the first part of the game. This worry leads to chess performance anxiety.

Sources of Stress
There are a few main sources of stress in chess. These include fear of the unexpected, the huge pressure to win, and the strain from long games. Stress affects things like heart rate, how well you sleep, and how ready your mind is. For example, a chess player’s resting heart rate might go up from 50 to 60 or 65 during a tournament. Stress can also make sleep quality and readiness go down, from 85 to 70 on average.

The Illusion of Control in Chess
One big cause of anxiety in chess is the illusion of control. Players often think they need to be ready for everything, especially in the beginning. This unrealistic expectation leads to unnecessary worry and panic before the game. Knowing that it’s impossible to prepare for every single move can help reduce this stress. Understand that mastering every possible scenario is not feasible, but it’s a stress factor many players face and can manage.

To handle stress, certain practices are beneficial. Regular physical activity, relaxation methods, and eating well help a lot. Activities like meditation, writing in a diary, and maintaining a good diet also reduce stress and boost focus. For example, a quick 15-minute jog can decrease stress hormones, bring on endorphins, and help you sleep better. These are important for staying mentally and physically ready.

IM John Bartholomew has a smart strategy. He says it’s vital to be okay with how much you’ve prepared. This helps build confidence and readiness of the mind. Being realistic and growing your emotional intelligence is key to handling competitive chess pressures.

Identifying Personal Stress Triggers
Chess can be stressful. Understanding what triggers this stress is key to improving your game. Many players share common fears. These include the fear of losing, worrying about seeming unprofessional, and fearing being seen as a fraud. Knowing what makes you stressed in chess is essential for handling these feelings.

Common Fears Among Chess Players
High-level chess players often face psychological challenges. These can really affect how they play. Players commonly fear losing. They worry about seeming unprofessional. And they fear being seen as not genuine. These fears can freeze a player if not managed right.

The fear of losing, which is a significant stress trigger for many competitors.
Concerns about appearing unprofessional can lead to heightened anxiety.
The anxiety of being perceived as a fraud, undermining a player’s confidence.
Talking about or writing down these fears can lessen their impact. Chess players can shrink these fears by identifying and naming them. This is a key psychological tip.

Recognizing Anxiety Symptoms
Spotting anxiety in chess players can change game results. Anxiety might show as:

Racing thoughts that distract.
Lack of sleep, harming thinking skills.
Muscle aches, common from long, intense play.

here are the researches I found and yes Chess tournaments stress are real: Handling Pressure: Staying Calm Under Chess Tournament Stress May 16, 2024 by John Levkowitz Ever wonder why pros like International Master John Bartholomew worry about losing before a match? It’s common among chess players. Stress in chess comes from wanting to do well and thinking we can control the game early on. Bartholomew says fear is normal. Facing our fears helps us handle pressure better and perform well. People play chess for many personal reasons. Some do it to get better at coaching, to meet others, or to focus. Knowing your reasons can ease the pressure of high expectations. It’s key to accept your skills and use what you have. Every match helps you grow. Using tournament notebooks and sleep meditations can calm you. These methods help deal with stress. Remember why you play and be okay with your prep. This changes fear into something helpful, not scary. Key Takeaways Acknowledge the irrational nature of pre-tournament fears and address them head-on. Remember your personal reasons for playing, which often extend beyond winning. Focus on leveraging existing skills rather than attempting last-minute drastic changes. Adopt calming techniques like guided sleep meditations and keeping a tournament notebook. Utilize meditation and mindfulness to manage anxiety during games. Understand that the chess improvement process is continuous and each tournament contributes to your growth. Understanding Chess Tournament Stress Chess tournaments can last many days. Sometimes, they go on for 7, 9, or even 11 days straight. This long period can cause a lot of stress. The reason is the mental and emotional pressure it brings. Players often worry about having to be ready for every scenario, especially in the first part of the game. This worry leads to chess performance anxiety. Sources of Stress There are a few main sources of stress in chess. These include fear of the unexpected, the huge pressure to win, and the strain from long games. Stress affects things like heart rate, how well you sleep, and how ready your mind is. For example, a chess player’s resting heart rate might go up from 50 to 60 or 65 during a tournament. Stress can also make sleep quality and readiness go down, from 85 to 70 on average. The Illusion of Control in Chess One big cause of anxiety in chess is the illusion of control. Players often think they need to be ready for everything, especially in the beginning. This unrealistic expectation leads to unnecessary worry and panic before the game. Knowing that it’s impossible to prepare for every single move can help reduce this stress. Understand that mastering every possible scenario is not feasible, but it’s a stress factor many players face and can manage. To handle stress, certain practices are beneficial. Regular physical activity, relaxation methods, and eating well help a lot. Activities like meditation, writing in a diary, and maintaining a good diet also reduce stress and boost focus. For example, a quick 15-minute jog can decrease stress hormones, bring on endorphins, and help you sleep better. These are important for staying mentally and physically ready. IM John Bartholomew has a smart strategy. He says it’s vital to be okay with how much you’ve prepared. This helps build confidence and readiness of the mind. Being realistic and growing your emotional intelligence is key to handling competitive chess pressures. Identifying Personal Stress Triggers Chess can be stressful. Understanding what triggers this stress is key to improving your game. Many players share common fears. These include the fear of losing, worrying about seeming unprofessional, and fearing being seen as a fraud. Knowing what makes you stressed in chess is essential for handling these feelings. Common Fears Among Chess Players High-level chess players often face psychological challenges. These can really affect how they play. Players commonly fear losing. They worry about seeming unprofessional. And they fear being seen as not genuine. These fears can freeze a player if not managed right. The fear of losing, which is a significant stress trigger for many competitors. Concerns about appearing unprofessional can lead to heightened anxiety. The anxiety of being perceived as a fraud, undermining a player’s confidence. Talking about or writing down these fears can lessen their impact. Chess players can shrink these fears by identifying and naming them. This is a key psychological tip. Recognizing Anxiety Symptoms Spotting anxiety in chess players can change game results. Anxiety might show as: Racing thoughts that distract. Lack of sleep, harming thinking skills. Muscle aches, common from long, intense play.

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