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Im an 11-year-old going through body shaming. Im short and whoever I talk to that's the first thing they point out. all people judge me by is how short I am,and I really wanna frick them
Coping methods?

Im an 11-year-old going through body shaming. Im short and whoever I talk to that's the first thing they point out. all people judge me by is how short I am,and I really wanna frick them Coping methods?

how do they sound when they mention this to you? are they nice when they comment? those people are just unaware of how a comment can affect someone. to those people you can respond with something like, yeh, i’m going to be a detective, no one will see me.

people may just want to find out what kind of person you are and that’s the only thing they can think of to say to talk to you.

anyone who would point that out as an attack reveals themselves as a person not worth knowing.

you could make it humorous and say, yeh, i don’t hit my head on a lot of things”
or, you say, well at least i’m not (whatever they are, fill in the blank).

how about this one-thank you for noticing, i didn’t know, or i don’t know you cared.

ps-drink a lot of milk

how do they sound when they mention this to you? are they nice when they comment? those people are just unaware of how a comment can affect someone. to those people you can respond with something like, yeh, i’m going to be a detective, no one will see me. people may just want to find out what kind of person you are and that’s the only thing they can think of to say to talk to you. anyone who would point that out as an attack reveals themselves as a person not worth knowing. you could make it humorous and say, yeh, i don’t hit my head on a lot of things” or, you say, well at least i’m not (whatever they are, fill in the blank). how about this one-thank you for noticing, i didn’t know, or i don’t know you cared. ps-drink a lot of milk

Yeah I drink like a gallon of milk every day but I have bad genetics.My mom is really short and her gene in this case was more dominant

Yeah I drink like a gallon of milk every day but I have bad genetics.My mom is really short and her gene in this case was more dominant

Just gotta become a short king, and beat em with the rizz - make those jocks look like fools - and learn some martial arts while you're at it so if they get angry about being made to look stupid you can put them in their place

Just gotta become a short king, and beat em with the rizz - make those jocks look like fools - and learn some martial arts while you're at it so if they get angry about being made to look stupid you can put them in their place

ai says
An 11-year-old boy is right at the starting line of his major growth spurt, so it is incredibly common for him to be shorter than his peers—especially compared to girls of the same age, who typically start puberty earlier.

and it said a lot of other things too. even with genetics, good food, sleep and exercise contribute to your goal. your doctor can xray your wrist to see your bone age.

ai says An 11-year-old boy is right at the starting line of his major growth spurt, so it is incredibly common for him to be shorter than his peers—especially compared to girls of the same age, who typically start puberty earlier. and it said a lot of other things too. even with genetics, good food, sleep and exercise contribute to your goal. your doctor can xray your wrist to see your bone age.

@salmon_rushdie said ^

Just gotta become a short king, and beat em with the rizz - make those jocks look like fools - and learn some martial arts while you're at it so if they get angry about being made to look stupid you can put them in their place

Easier said than done

@salmon_rushdie said [^](/forum/redirect/post/tQ8ORtuo) > Just gotta become a short king, and beat em with the rizz - make those jocks look like fools - and learn some martial arts while you're at it so if they get angry about being made to look stupid you can put them in their place Easier said than done

@ryanshen15 said ^

Just gotta become a short king, and beat em with the rizz - make those jocks look like fools - and learn some martial arts while you're at it so if they get angry about being made to look stupid you can put them in their place

Easier said than done

Who said it would be easy?

@ryanshen15 said [^](/forum/redirect/post/k79GPCZp) > > Just gotta become a short king, and beat em with the rizz - make those jocks look like fools - and learn some martial arts while you're at it so if they get angry about being made to look stupid you can put them in their place > > Easier said than done Who said it would be easy?

@salmon_rushdie said ^

Just gotta become a short king, and beat em with the rizz - make those jocks look like fools - and learn some martial arts while you're at it so if they get angry about being made to look stupid you can put them in their place

Easier said than done

Who said it would be easy?

Hm...you're right

@salmon_rushdie said [^](/forum/redirect/post/77jYjtoD) > > > Just gotta become a short king, and beat em with the rizz - make those jocks look like fools - and learn some martial arts while you're at it so if they get angry about being made to look stupid you can put them in their place > > > > Easier said than done > > Who said it would be easy? Hm...you're right

ai also suggests
Strategic Dressing Tips-
Vertical Lines: Vertical stripes, visible seams, or a long zipper draw the eye up and down, creating an illusion of height.
Monochromatic Outfits: Wearing clothes in the same color family (like an all-navy or all-grey outfit) prevents the body from being visually cut in half, making him look taller.
The Right Fit: Avoid oversized or baggy clothing. Clothes that fit well—without being too tight—elongate the body, whereas baggy clothes can make a shorter person look shorter.
Keep Details High: Graphic tees with prints near the chest or shoulders draw attention upward, away from his overall height

ai also suggests Strategic Dressing Tips- Vertical Lines: Vertical stripes, visible seams, or a long zipper draw the eye up and down, creating an illusion of height. Monochromatic Outfits: Wearing clothes in the same color family (like an all-navy or all-grey outfit) prevents the body from being visually cut in half, making him look taller. The Right Fit: Avoid oversized or baggy clothing. Clothes that fit well—without being too tight—elongate the body, whereas baggy clothes can make a shorter person look shorter. Keep Details High: Graphic tees with prints near the chest or shoulders draw attention upward, away from his overall height

I dont have a lot of options for dressing because my school requires uniforms

I dont have a lot of options for dressing because my school requires uniforms