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How do i beat my depression?

Last time i being more and more sad and stressed all of getting pressures everywhere.
Waiting from parent support? They just start to get angry and say to me "dont get depressed",how about friends? They just take It as joke and makes fun at me, how about school? No words about it.
I really want to beat it because i starting to thinking to end myself.
I'm doing my best to stopping think about it and relaxing myself.
Is there any ways to beat that depression fast as i can?

Last time i being more and more sad and stressed all of getting pressures everywhere. Waiting from parent support? They just start to get angry and say to me "dont get depressed",how about friends? They just take It as joke and makes fun at me, how about school? No words about it. I really want to beat it because i starting to thinking to end myself. I'm doing my best to stopping think about it and relaxing myself. Is there any ways to beat that depression fast as i can?

Seek help.

Seek help.

Not that i have experience, but play chess, maybe read books or comics, just hang out a lil. (Edit: If you don't have reliable friends, then don't hang out with em for a while, or try to find other friends or interest.) If your parents don't understand your depression, then indeed seek help as tpr said. Try to stop watching things like yt shorts and/or tiktok, and try to live as healthy as possible! Furtherly, as long as you try there is hope, remember!

Not that i have experience, but play chess, maybe read books or comics, just hang out a lil. (Edit: If you don't have reliable friends, then don't hang out with em for a while, or try to find other friends or interest.) If your parents don't understand your depression, then indeed seek help as tpr said. Try to stop watching things like yt shorts and/or tiktok, and try to live as healthy as possible! Furtherly, as long as you try there is hope, remember!

(@)player_8846: 'Waiting from parent support? They just start to get angry and say to me "dont get depressed",' ~ Leave your parents as soon as possible. If you are not of legal age, then there might be grandparents or other relatives who will take you in.

'how about friends? They just take It as joke and makes fun at me,' ~ Stop being friends with them.

In the aforementioned cases, remember this: 'Being alone is better than being with the wrong person.' ~ L from Death Note.

When you are alone, you stand still; when you are with bad company, you are being dragged down; when you are with good company, you may enjoy it and learn to see things from new points of view.

'I'm doing my best to stopping think about it and relaxing myself.' ~ If we do not acknowledge bad things and focus on fixing them, then they will never be solved; in fact, they are likely to worsen. One cannot reasonably be relaxed when they are faced with things such as depression.

'Is there any ways to beat that depression fast as i can?' ~ Wind, sunlight, physical exercise, meditation, staying busy, and---supposedly---anti-depressants (which have not been proven to work, from what I know). One must stay consistent to defeat depression; it is a mental poison.

(@)player_8846: 'Waiting from parent support? They just start to get angry and say to me "dont get depressed",' ~ Leave your parents as soon as possible. If you are not of legal age, then there might be grandparents or other relatives who will take you in. 'how about friends? They just take It as joke and makes fun at me,' ~ Stop being friends with them. In the aforementioned cases, remember this: 'Being alone is better than being with the wrong person.' ~ L from Death Note. When you are alone, you stand still; when you are with bad company, you are being dragged down; when you are with good company, you may enjoy it and learn to see things from new points of view. 'I'm doing my best to stopping think about it and relaxing myself.' ~ If we do not acknowledge bad things and focus on fixing them, then they will never be solved; in fact, they are likely to worsen. One cannot reasonably be relaxed when they are faced with things such as depression. 'Is there any ways to beat that depression fast as i can?' ~ Wind, sunlight, physical exercise, meditation, staying busy, and---supposedly---anti-depressants (which have not been proven to work, from what I know). One must stay consistent to defeat depression; it is a mental poison.

I had depression feelings when I was 20. My older friend referred me to a Christian counselor who had helped him and his wife. I met with that counselor regularly for several weeks and discussed my life in depth with honesty. It was helpful.

I had depression feelings when I was 20. My older friend referred me to a Christian counselor who had helped him and his wife. I met with that counselor regularly for several weeks and discussed my life in depth with honesty. It was helpful.

Breathe in breathe out

Breathe in breathe out

@player_8846 said ^

Last time i being more and more sad and stressed all of getting pressures everywhere.
Waiting from parent support? They just start to get angry and say to me "dont get depressed",how about friends? They just take It as joke and makes fun at me, how about school? No words about it.
I really want to beat it because i starting to thinking to end myself.
I'm doing my best to stopping think about it and relaxing myself.
Is there any ways to beat that depression fast as i can?

Idk but ill reccomed therapys

@player_8846 said [^](/forum/redirect/post/UACaV4iS) > Last time i being more and more sad and stressed all of getting pressures everywhere. > Waiting from parent support? They just start to get angry and say to me "dont get depressed",how about friends? They just take It as joke and makes fun at me, how about school? No words about it. > I really want to beat it because i starting to thinking to end myself. > I'm doing my best to stopping think about it and relaxing myself. > Is there any ways to beat that depression fast as i can? Idk but ill reccomed therapys
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@player_8846 said ^

Waiting from parent support? They just start to get angry and say to me "dont get depressed",how about friends? They just take It as joke and makes fun at me

Yeah...real helpful parents (they sound about as helpful as mine were). And your friends sound like the local chapter of The Three Stooges (the usual buncha grade school clowns).

It's not for nothing that being a teenager is known as the Difficult Years. Bear in mind though that things WILL get better...if you can just manage to make it through that. Isn't there anybody around you who you can confide in and who will bring some measure of understanding to bear? I myself had a couple of understanding teachers...and a few guys at the local chess club. I also managed to find a couple of friends who weren't the usual yahoos.

Also, bear in mind that it is okay (and natural) to be a bit depressed. A lot of people who have achieved much have had rather glum dispositions...and at any rate, I say it's better than being some sort of walking Smile Face (as so many nowadays seem to aspire to).

As for me: I spent most of my teenage years in a perpetual funk. Until eventually I went off to college (where things were a lot more relaxed and the people more accepting) and I was--fortunately--able to put that whole gloomy era behind me.

@player_8846 said [^](/forum/redirect/post/UACaV4iS) > Waiting from parent support? They just start to get angry and say to me "dont get depressed",how about friends? They just take It as joke and makes fun at me Yeah...real helpful parents (they sound about as helpful as mine were). And your friends sound like the local chapter of The Three Stooges (the usual buncha grade school clowns). It's not for nothing that being a teenager is known as the Difficult Years. Bear in mind though that things WILL get better...if you can just manage to make it through that. Isn't there anybody around you who you can confide in and who will bring some measure of understanding to bear? I myself had a couple of understanding teachers...and a few guys at the local chess club. I also managed to find a couple of friends who weren't the usual yahoos. Also, bear in mind that it is okay (and natural) to be a bit depressed. A lot of people who have achieved much have had rather glum dispositions...and at any rate, I say it's better than being some sort of walking Smile Face (as so many nowadays seem to aspire to). As for me: I spent most of my teenage years in a perpetual funk. Until eventually I went off to college (where things were a lot more relaxed and the people more accepting) and I was--fortunately--able to put that whole gloomy era behind me.

I'm really sorry that you are feeling so bad right now. I'm saying now because you must still be a very young person and what you are feeling now is not what you will feel forever but it is a temporary rough time that you have to and will get through.
Some, I think, good and hopefully helpful advice has already been given but just a couple of very simple things that I'm just thinking of: What are your eating habits like? Do you eat regularly and healthily, making sure your blood sugar level stays on a normal level? And, have you already been out for a walk in the fresh air today, catching some of those nice UV rays? Proper nutrition and exercise are very important.
I know what it's like to be an unhappy teenager with no one to really confide in and plenty other people do, too. You're not as alone as you might feel, keep your head up!

I'm really sorry that you are feeling so bad right now. I'm saying *now* because you must still be a very young person and what you are feeling now is not what you will feel forever but it is a temporary rough time that you have to and will get through. Some, I think, good and hopefully helpful advice has already been given but just a couple of very simple things that I'm just thinking of: What are your eating habits like? Do you eat regularly and healthily, making sure your blood sugar level stays on a normal level? And, have you already been out for a walk in the fresh air today, catching some of those nice UV rays? Proper nutrition and exercise are very important. I know what it's like to be an unhappy teenager with no one to really confide in and plenty other people do, too. You're not as alone as you might feel, keep your head up!

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