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When you go for a tournament, there's certain body language and behavior you must display. Here are a few methods / tips for you to use to attain that attitude. Pay attention, and ask doubts in the comments section. Follow me for more updates (mostly monthly). Also, most of what I'm telling you is based on my own experiences.

Tip #1

Before the game, don't ask questions to your opponent regarding their age, school, etc. unless it is required to be written on the notation sheet. You can easily get intimidated by the answers. Like, let's say Person A is in 5th Grade. They come to know that their opponent is in 9th Grade. They could easily get scared. Or they come to know that their opponent has been playing chess professionally for 5 years, while they have been doing it only for 2. These are few examples to the numerous affects that occur when you ask unnecessary questions. Instead, focus, take deep breaths and prepare yourself.

Don't Answer Questions Either

If your opponent asks you a question, it is preferable not to answer it. The reason is that giving out information unnecessarily, like how many points you have, your rating, who you won and lost against, etc. can either motivate or demotivate the other. They can also get intimidated, and even intimidate you in return by telling the same information in reference to themselves.

Tip #2

During the game, don't talk or make eye contact. Your opponent can try to intimidate you by looking you in the eye or staring at you, so you shouldn't let that happen. Never speak unnecessarily, and if your opponent or someone nearby is disturbing you with their talks, there is nothing wrong in calling an arbiter to report the same. You should be able to maintain utmost calmness while playing, and be able to think clearly and productively.

Tip #3

Always maintain good sportsmanship after the game. Wish your opponent good luck before the game, and afterwards tell them things like "Good Game" or "You Played Well". These simple words can motivate the other, which is necessary. As they say, a person either Wins or Learns. You should respect that and never tease them or trouble them for losing against you. And if you have lost, don't be upset about it and don't get hurt if your opponent decides to bully you for your loss.

Conclusion

The great Roger Federer was correct when he said that every game, every match, every moment; achievement or loss; was a point. You either win it, or you learn from the experience. Either way, it is crucial for your development. Never linger on to just one point of your life, as you may accidentally ruin the next. Learn how to move on and maintain a positive attitude, for that is the way to ensure yourself healthy mentally and physically.

I hope this blog was helpful and contributed to how you view your life, yourself and your actions in some little way. Until next time,
Chao!
~ Enthusiast976