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Is it normal to be shouted at by parents after losing at chess?

whatismymainbro

Go and beat them 100 times in a row. Then tell them what they've been saying to you. It'll be crazy for a lil while but it will get them to stop, for sure.

Go and beat them 100 times in a row. Then tell them what they've been saying to you. It'll be crazy for a lil while but it will get them to stop, for sure.
LeStoopidBeane

@Himawari_Nohara said ^

  • Just now i was told that i am doing this on purpose because i want to go home faster

  • i was told that i have no interest in playing the rest of tournament.

  • I was being confirmed that i will lose tomorrow as well because i lost 2 rounds in a row.

  • They dont understand the effort someone puts in thwir game.

  • if i lost, i dont need fucking captionless screenshots telling me where i had -1....

IT IS NOT NORMAL. This is horrid, I am so sorry that they're doing this. They're screaming about two rounds of chess? The fuck? They don't play. They don't know. And regardless of being 2200, the other person was still 2090. That is difficult, very difficult. Winning and losing shouldn't be the point, the point should be how well you played. Blunders could happen even if you practice for a year; they're normal. No 13y/o should be bashed like this. Again, I am so, so sorry that you are going through this absolute shitshow.

@Himawari_Nohara said [^](/forum/redirect/post/NkKfB3Dk) > - Just now i was told that i am doing this on purpose because i want to go home faster > > - i was told that i have no interest in playing the rest of tournament. > > - I was being confirmed that i will lose tomorrow as well because i lost 2 rounds in a row. > > - They dont understand the effort someone puts in thwir game. > > - if i lost, i dont need fucking captionless screenshots telling me where i had -1.... IT IS NOT NORMAL. This is horrid, I am so sorry that they're doing this. They're screaming about two rounds of chess? The fuck? They don't play. They don't know. And regardless of being 2200, the other person was still 2090. That is difficult, very difficult. Winning and losing shouldn't be the point, the point should be how well you played. Blunders could happen even if you practice for a year; they're normal. No 13y/o should be bashed like this. Again, I am so, so sorry that you are going through this absolute shitshow.